Promotion, Demotion or Locomotion

This information is age appropriate and presented to those who think they are ready for leadership.

 

This information is age appropriate and presented to those who think they are ready for leadership.

Some who think they are ready, are all over the internet and in cyberspace too.  I will not focus on them right now, but if you feel you are God’s apostle, prophet, pastor, teacher or evangelist, please read this.  It will save you heartache and years, if you will heed it now.

All gifts must be nurtured, surrendered and prepared by a willingness to surrender to the process of discipleship and service.

Once the foundation is laid in discipleship, the next step that comes is to prepare God’s people for works of service.  For those with leadership callings, especially in the five fold ministry, you must be groomed by a mentor or coach,  (Ephesians 4).

This takes time as you serve the LORD and learn by a coach or mentor.  Whoever is placed over your life to train you, at times can feel uncomfortable.  This is a must for upcoming leaders.

There are some who have had several mentors in their lives at pivotal times of preparation.  This was added, due to the elevation the LORD is taking them in.

In frustration, you may feel like you are starting over!  The reality is yes, you really you are!

However you are on a different level.  Everything you have learned is part of your soul and will always be there.  The Holy Spirit will pull on those reserves as necessary for it is part of your journey which benefits others.

You may be a pastor and God wants you to become a prophet.  Yes, for some it is like starting over.  However, according to the elevation God has in store for you, Jesus must prepare you through works of service.  It’s a promotion beloved!  Not a demotion!

We are first the sons of God and servants to the body of Christ.  Christ came and served.  He taught, healed, trained and positioned the disciples.  He demonstrated with his life and death the true understanding of leadership.  He knew he had to prepare them for what was coming.

We all are constantly pressing and changing according to the mark of the high calling in Christ Jesus!  God may take a full time minister and sit them down in another place to learn more.  Yes there are times we need more perspective in the LORD and through our mentor or coach.

Everything you have learned is good, all the past experiences are great and they will be used later in ministry whether they are good or bad experiences, we all learn this way.  We all must learn at the master’s feet.

You cannot expect to know things if you are not properly trained.  Make a covenant with your mentor or coach to prepare you.  If you cannot submit to God in this, you never will be able to properly reproduce the good you have in you.

Rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft and stubbornness is as idolatry.  Once you know you hear from God about a mentor or coach, plug in and don’t let go.  Stay the course no matter how long.

“For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king,”   1 Samuel 15:23 KJV.

God is in charge with this, and it all depends on you.  You can make it easier or harder on yourself.  Personally I was mentored three years before I started a church.  Before that, I was under two other ministries in preparation as lay minister.

All along the way, life teaches us and so does God.  I tell you this because it is true in my life.  I love my mentor and those who trained me and glad they corrected me.  I learned so much by surrendering to God in this; saving many years of heartache and disappointment.

This is a very rewarding time as well as a tough time.  It hurts so GOOD!  Yes, God will use your mentor or coach to hone in your skills, gifting and application while using correction as needed.

“So he departed thence, and found Elisha the son of Shaphat, who was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen before him, and he with the twelfth; and Elijah passed by him, and cast his mantle upon him.  And he left the oxen, and ran after Elijah, and said, Let me, I pray thee, kiss my father and my mother, and then I will follow thee. And he said unto him, Go back again: for what have I done to thee?”   1 Kings 19:19-20 KJV.

Did you know Elisha had a choice, he chose to be chosen.  Elijah wanted him to be sure he knew what he was getting into.

Some of you cannot take correction from a Godly man or woman of God.  If you say God is in your thoughts and words and you are ready for the ministry, please be informed that WE ALL must be accountable and responsible to our leadership; whether we are online ministry or on the streets, we NEVER outgrow our need for accountability.  It last for life.

To be responsible, we all must be accountable to those we trust.  Until we learn this, “our ministry” will be limited to the size of our experience in God.

YES, I have leaders to whom I am accountable.  Being mentored by your leader is to prepare you for much more after discipleship.  Before you can ever take the reins and lead God’s people, God will teach you how to follow first.  We must learn lessons of humility, accountability and responsibility.

We ALL are part of the body of Christ, but we all need to remain open for correction and guidance through our leaders.  Before you lead you must learn to follow.  Discipleship is a necessary ingredient before we are ever ready for ministry.

Discipleship is only the beginning.  Depending on the type of call to ministry will determine what type of preparation you will need.  For some it has taken many years.

Do you feel called to the prophetic or apostolic office’s?  Who are you accountable to?  Who did you learn from?  Some call it being coached, I call it mentored.  Begin to ask people where they are submitted and who are they accountable to?

When will we surrender to His will?

Rebellion in not submitting to God’s will, will hinder your growth.  You may see limited success at first but you will always end up at the same dry place around the mountain again.  Let us start again and wait on the Lord.  Pray for his counsel to help you find a mentor or coach.  Know those who labor among us.  Pray for God to send you a seasoned mentor or coach.

When will you surrender to His will?

This important and wise counsel should be heeded.  Really listen and meditate before the LORD.  This is what His Spirit is saying to the churches.  Find your place and do not leave it until the LORD has released you.  It is worth it and you will be elevated when God sees you’re ready!

 

In HIS Grace and Mercy,
~ Sherry Edwards Mackey


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Uncovering and Clearing Ground

There are those, spread over far distances and hills, like sheep and lambs, all separated and bleating, like they are lost. They cry out for the shepherd to protect them.

There are those, spread over far distances and hills, like sheep and lambs, all separated and bleating, like they are lost.  They cry out for the shepherd to protect them.

These sheep are scattered so far from each other, they didn’t know where their own kind are.  Many are rejects and unloved.  The sheep are hurting, confused, sick, weak, tired and lost.  They wait for your arrival, for the flock shall come together.

“My sheep hear My voice and the voice of the stranger they will not follow,”  see John 10.

There are other veteran soldiers, those who have injuries, missing limbs, who fought a valiant fight and still do, fight the fight.  These are outcast by the world and even in Christendom, because of their disabilities.

“Thus say the LORD to you, don’t let the enemy intimidate you from past mistakes, humiliations and disabilities.  As far as My body is concerned, I shall place some of My very rejects into high places of authority in My army; defects and all.”

God takes the foolish to confound the wise and He especially likes to use the rejects, those with disabilities, humiliations and those whom you would never think of, because of tainted pasts and defects.

What the LORD wants us to focus on; as the increase of the purity of the Bride comes to her final glorious hour; many, may not understand.

However, He is moving and sounding the alarm, that this is the time at hand.  God is heavily alerting those who are called to Travail, Intercede and War.

Intercessors have always been known as a strange lot, but God is going to give such detailed information to HIS prophets, warriors and intercessors that has not yet been revealed for such a time.

“MY intercessors and prophets will deepen in my press and I shall reveal how to combat ancient spirits that are deeply rooted in many cultures.”

The ground must be cleansed before it can be plowed and cultivated.

Many cultures are held captive by ancient spirits which are on the warpath against anyone who dares to tread on their pseudo territory.  The Kingdom suffers violence, but the violent take it by force.

The people must be taught how to maintain their own deliverance and the lands deliverance.  Ground gained must be maintained.

We need to know these things so when revival comes, and the fruit it brings, it will stay.  It’s all about souls for the kingdom and establishing his reign on the earth.

Yes, we need to be aware of our regions, locales and such, but it is all for cleansing the land.  We do not need to explore the depths of satan, but we need to explore the depths of God’s Spirit, and then He will tell you everything that you need to know about the enemy.

So in all our learning, know who you are, know warfare, discernment and travail.

All of these things come directly from our time spent in intimacy with the LORD.  He will train us to war and we won’t fail.

Christ has already won the war for the souls of man kind, but there are many battles in a war and each with it’s own agenda.  This is the walk of a warrior Bride and now He says, it is time to equip and prepare My people.

The fields are white for harvest and the sheep and lambs need tending.  Walk on beloved, walk on!

 

In HIS Grace and Mercy,
~ Sherry Edwards Mackey

The Eagle’s Nest

As Christians, we should strive to be a blessing to others, not judging them with a critical, judgmental spirit. Even if they smell or look rough, who are we to judge?

As Christians, we should strive to be a blessing to others, not judging them with a critical, judgmental spirit.  Even if they smell or look rough, who are we to judge?

I imagine there are a lot of folks like Lazarus is up in heaven.  We have them all around us.
We all have habits, weakness, flaws, issues, faults and sin in our lives.

We try to hide behind our defenses, so that others will not see the real US.  If people knew the secrets about US, what would they say?

We don’t want others knowing how messed up our life is, even though God continues to love, bless, mature and teach us.  Thank GOD!

It’s Grace all the way beloved.  The same way you met Jesus, is the same way you walk on with Him.  By Faith!  We all have good and bad days.  We are not always on the mountain with Him the way we wish we could be.

Humility is a state of existence.  As we stay dependent on Jesus we remain humble.  We desperately need our Jesus!

Remember Peter, when he awoke from sleep to see he was in a meeting with Jesus, Moses and Elijah?  He wanted to make a contribution!  He was also the Disciple  whom Jesus told; “Get behind me satan!”   Did Jesus kick him to the curb and tell him he was too bad and that he was no longer needed?

We can try to make ourselves perfect in the flesh beloved, however in this flesh will be NO perfection in our life time.  When we try to be perfect, we burn out over and over again until we learn that it is all God from beginning to the end.

Yes, we are to strive to be more like Jesus and that will take a life time.  We never come to a level of maturity, where we get so big in God, that we won’t need the Holy Spirit our colleagues and each other.  There will never come a place in God where we don’t need His Grace and Mercy.

I have watched as Christians try to gang up on a brother about a habit and tell him how bad he is!  Those people knew not the nature and character of God regarding this.  Nor did they rightly check their own faults and failures in their hypocrisy.

We must realize in comparison to Gods Word, there is no sin or flaw worse than the other except for Blasphemy of the Holy Ghost.  How come no one speaks about gluttony?  It’s in there!

Beloved, I think the majority of us deal with that sin more than we care to say.  Yet people want to hold to their own version of how God judges and corrects.

We say, “Did you see sister so-and-so react in such pride?!”

Let me ask an important question; Are we the Holy Ghost?

Are we supposed to be doing HIS job?  NO!  Yet “we,” the church,  continue to judge others based on our version of how things are done.

This is important for us to understand; The religious spirit gets fuel from such attitudes and seeks out those in God who are not with their program!  They say get with the program; You know the drill.  So religious churches thrive with such protocol that NO ONE can live up to.

So-and-so finally falls out, and burns out.  Those inside that religious institution tell each other, “Well so-and-so was not cut out for this life.”  Thank God so-and-so burnt out!  The LORD lets us burn out to teach us it’s all about Him from beginning to end.  Christ in us, the hope of all glory!

If the LORD doesn’t do something, who are we to think we can?

We try to help Him out don’t we?  How do we know He isn’t doing His job?

No one knows the path of a believer, except for God.  We all have habits, flaws etc.  If the believer felt they could talk to you, they would tell you they wish they could stop those sins.

If we Love God and excepted Jesus as our LORD and Savior, it’s done.  Our life after the cross is a journey with Christ.  We received a new nature when we got saved, and we no longer want to sin or miss the mark.

However, we all do things we don’t want to do!

I thank God He makes room for us, for truly, how can we open our mind and heart to let people in, when we can’t trust nobody?  The Only one to trust, is God.

That’s is why in relationships, we need to use wisdom and get to know people slowly.  It takes time to know a person.  Once they feel free enough, they will open up.  This applies to leadership as well.  It takes time for God to make room for them and ordain them.

It is Gods will to deliver them and raise them up.  What is our goal?  Simply to pray for them and bless them and support them as part of the body of Christ!  Amen?

How we look and act toward others is being watched, you know why? When you sow judgmental words you will reap them.

When we look into a mirror we see the reflection of who we are.  God tells us to look into the perfect law of liberty!  Look to the Word of God. God wants us reflecting his Word when we pray, help and prefer our brother, loving them. How we look and behave towards others is so important.  We need to see them as Jesus did and still does.

Dealing with up-coming leadership is important in so many ways, as we need to live above reproach.  However we try to not put a stumbling block before anyone.

Leaders must give an account to the LORD for their calling.  We don’t want to do anything that would cause the ministry to be blamed.  As leaders, we must look to Jesus’ example.  Look to others as Jesus would have us look to us.  We are to know those that labor among us.

There is a strong message God has for discipleship; It is SO needed!  As we submit to being in God’s army, we must be disciplined and on guard.  We lead by example.  Good leaders go before the army of God and train, build up and exercise his troops.  These troops are prepared and well trained in the furnace of affliction.

The Bible says, lay hands suddenly on no man.  We can get into things prematurely and not be ready to handle what comes.

The Bible also teaches that we should not advance people in authority who are novices.  We are to know those who labor among us.  I got to KNOW those who labor for me and not just let anyone in my head or spirit.

A premature release into leadership could cause damage.  In this case there is not enough time to know them and for the LORD to make it clear.  When God makes room for our gifts, everyone who has need to know will know.  A premature release could cost a life.  Why?  They are not prepared by God fully.

Scripture is clear not to release a novice, lest they be lifted up in pride, fall into the trap of the enemy.

Leaders are accountable for those who they release.  People need pastors, teachers as well as all the five fold ministry.  God has apostles, prophets, pastors, teachers and evangelist who are needed to prepare God’s people for works of service.   Again, we must KNOW those who labor among us and that takes time.

In closing, we must align ourselves with God’s word and do it His way.  Knowing God’s Word is paramount and understanding what damage we can do when we deal with others is so important.

The church is a hospital, so a lot of sick people come in.  Will we be those nurses, technicians or doctors, to help the hurt, wounded and afflicted souls?

Our goal is to provide a place of protection; Like a Nest.

This place would be where you can come in as a new believer, or seasoned believer and learn from those who are called to be part of your life.  Also in this place you can learn to grow and become leaders and have the freedom to exercise your gifts without being thrown out the door for trying.

You will learn in the nest.  Even in correction, you learn how things work and have many opportunities to exercise your gifts.  Once you are out there in ministry, doing what God called you to do, you will always have a place you can come back to even if you miss it.

The church is a live vibrant force to be reckoned with.  When we follow God’s standard of HIS Word, we will have his blessing and that is why we do what we do isn’t it?

We want souls won to the Kingdom!

We want souls to be changed and Abba God to be happy and proud of us as we learn to be like him!  Amen?  Amen!!

PS:   Please read these following scriptures as part of your Bible Study, they are good for your soul.

All King James Version:

“And as he prayed, the fashion of his countenance was altered, and his raiment was white and glistering.  And, behold, there talked with him two men, which were Moses and Elias: who appeared in glory, and spake of his decease which he should accomplish at Jerusalem.
But Peter and they that were with him were heavy with sleep: and when they were awake, they saw his glory, and the two men that stood with him.  And it came to pass, as they departed from him, Peter said unto Jesus, Master, it is good for us to be here: and let us make three tabernacles; one for thee, and one for Moses, and one for Elias: not knowing what he said.
While he thus spake, there came a cloud, and overshadowed them: and they feared as they entered into the cloud.  And there came a voice out of the cloud, saying, This is my beloved Son: hear him,”  
Luke 9:29-35.

“But when he had turned about and looked on his disciples, he rebuked Peter, saying, Get thee behind me, Satan: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but the things that be of men,”   Mark 8:33.

“Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.  For meat destroy not the work of God.  All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.  It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God.  Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.  And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin,”
   Romans 14:19-23.

“For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin. For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.  If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.  For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.  Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me. For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:  But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
I thank God through Jesus Christ our LORD. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin,”
   Romans 7:14-25.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.  For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.  For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:  That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.  For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.  Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.  But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you.  Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.  And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.  Therefore, brethren, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live after the flesh.  For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.
For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.
For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:
And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together,”   
Romans 8:1-17.

“Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you,”   Hebrews 13:17.

“These things command and teach.  Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.  Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.  Neglect not the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophecy, with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery.
Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all.
Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.
Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially they who labour in the word and doctrine.
For the scripture saith, Thou shalt not muzzle the ox that treadeth out the corn. And, The labourer is worthy of his reward.
Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses.
Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
I charge thee before God, and the LORD Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.
Lay hands suddenly on no man, neither be partaker of other men’s sins: keep thyself pure,”
   1 Timothy 5:11-22.

“For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come.  This is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptation.  For therefore we both labour and suffer reproach, because we trust in the living God, who is the Saviour of all men, specially of those that believe.
These things command and teach.  Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.
Neglect not the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophecy, with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery.  Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all.
Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee,”  
1 Timothy 4:8-16.

“Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil,”    1 Timothy 3:6.

“And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.  Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ.
No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.
And if a man also strive for masteries, yet is he not crowned, except he strive lawfully.
The husbandman that laboureth must be first partaker of the fruits.
Consider what I say; and the LORD give thee understanding in all things,”
   2 Timothy 2:2-7.

“And the servant of the LORD must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;  And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will,”   2 Timothy 2:24-26.

“But thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, longsuffering, charity, patience, Persecutions, afflictions, which came unto me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra; what persecutions I endured: but out of them all the LORD delivered me.
Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution.
But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.
But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them;  And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works,”   
2 Timothy 3:10-17.

“I charge thee therefore before God, and the LORD Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom; Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.
But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry.
For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand.
I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith,”  
2 Timothy 4:1-7.

 

In HIS Grace and Mercy,
~ Sherry Edwards Mackey

Kingdom Relationships

When we see others and a wrong word or action happens and the spirit of offense is given place, what are we to do? How would Jesus act? He accepts people where they’re at on their own level. So how would Jesus act?

We must learn to use our Godly sense to see where people are in their journey.  Our outreach is critical.

We must seek God about their situation.  How would the LORD have us behave?

As we remain humble, we keep looking to try and see their point of view.  How would you want to have that happen to you.  We reflect like a mirror.  May we reflect Jesus to them in the fruit of the Holy Spirit.

When we see others and a wrong word or action happens and the spirit of offense is given place, what are we to do?  How would Jesus act?  He accepts people where they’re at on their own level.  So how would Jesus act?

We must learn to cover our brother’s and sister’s.  How would we want to be dealt with when we miss it?  Jesus didn’t separate himself from Peter and the other disciples when they missed it.  As disciples we learn to cover each other like Noah’s sons backed up to him to cover his nakedness.

We all have issues at times when we need grace and mercy to cover our mistakes and nakedness.

Being a Christian and knowing intimate issues about those who we are around, must be handled in a spirit of meekness and forgiveness.

I have known people who get satisfaction out of others mistakes, nakedness and sin.  That is a slippery slope when we all need mercy and forgiveness.  We must be mindful to respect each other.

How would we want to be dealt with if we messed up like Noah?  Satan wants us to look at each others faults, guilt, in a condemning critical and judgmental spirit.

The Spirit of Grace is everlasting and love covers a multitude of sin and iniquity.

Satan strategy is to cause us to attack and expose those who have been caught up in sin and iniquity.

We that labor together must meet in that place where concerns and issues need to be dealt with.  We are to give no place to the devil.  In this place we need instructions and strategy against divisive spirits that wish to kill, steal and destroy our union.

We can run people off by not being sensitive to where each person is.  Especially the unbeliever.  We also can run saints off by not being sensitive to their growth.  We are to meet people where they are.  In that place we meet them in unconditional love.  When we look at the condition of the person, we need to ask ourselves, how would I want to be spoken to if the table was turned.  It takes a short prayer to ask God this.  Love covers a multitude of sin and iniquity.

As we become closer in relationships, we can recognize issues because we are familiar with the people.  However as leaders when we get too familiar we loose our ability to effect them.  There must be effective boundaries that we set in order.  We are to respect healthy boundaries as we expect the same in each other.  As leaders, if we allow the flock to become too familiar with the leader we will loose the ability to effect them for good.  There must boundaries and we must learn them.  Respect one another in love and in their boundaries.  Familiarity breeds contempt.

When we see things that are wrong, we must especially not say, but pray for them.  We as a body of believers must learn to cover each others backs.  Living above reproach is a goal we should strive for.  However, this walk is from beginning to end and is a walk of faith.

As intercessors we see things as we pray and God reveals personal things and we must keep them private.  What we see must stay within the boundaries of that group or individual. God would not show us if we were untrustworthy.

I am afraid to say this, that a lot of people think they have discernment and it isn’t.  It’s a critical and judgmental spirit and in this they rejoice when they see a brother or sister fall.  They wait to see our demise.  What is said in private is private.  What is said in the group stays in the group.

To become mature, the journey will always continue in motion, and we move on regardless of how we grow through it.  It is a good thing to learn to be quick to hear, slow to wrath.

We learn how to forgive bitterness and resentment and bearing no grudge or anger.  We are not born this way. It is acquired by our relationship with Christ.

Now there is more accountability on the mature; Especially if they hold leadership roles.  The religious drive people like cattle.  The Shepherd gently leads the flock.  When we get pressured to act on things, we must actively pull back and wait on the LORD.

Our first relationship is Jesus.  He is our first love.  That relationship must be first before any other person, place or thing.

It will be a ongoing battle in life to keep our first love position.  Jesus gets jealous of our time and our intimacy with him.  Whatever in life pulls us away from that intimacy must be resisted.  It will always be our number one purpose in life is our first love relationship.

If we have ought against our brother, what do we do?  First we always pray when we see and war on their behalf.  God will always give us opportunities to be stretched.

We don’t have to prove who we are in God or to NO one.  God proves and elevates, promotes and then everyone knows it.  Our ministry is of reconciliation and restoration. Humility always comes before honor.

The good news is prophecy is good, even when we have to correct.  What I see in others must be first lived in my life.  Yes, but there are consequences to our behaviors and sin.

To have kindness we become kindness to others.  We develop the fruit of the Spirit as we abide in the vine.  So to combat hatred, we love and we are kind as we abide in the vine.  In these testing times is how His fruits remain with us.

We are ambassadors of reconciliation.  We are to seek and look through the eyes of Jesus.

We are to learn and understand where people are at in life.  As we trust God and pray, miracles can happen with us in relationships.  Humility is so needed when dealing with the lost and deceived.  If you were in their shoes how would you want someone to speak to you to encourage or reach you?

The gospel is good news.  This is all about establishing relationships and maintaining them as we are all part of each other.  Amen?  Amen!

“Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.  But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.  And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican,”   Matthew 18:14-17 KJV.

 

In HIS Grace and Mercy,
~ Sherry Edwards Mackey